I hear more and more often, and have found in my personal experience,
that hosts often do not receive receive responses to their invitations.
Therefore, hosts can't tell how many guests plan to attend their
parties, even if an RSVP is clearly requested. This could mean either
one of two things. First it could mean that rudeness is a growing trend
in our society. Or, as I would prefer to believe, people no longer
understand what the term means. Assuming the best, and that the reason
guests don't RSVP to an invitation is a case of ignorance, not rudeness,
I will clarify this for the record.
What RSVP Means
The term RSVP comes from the French expression "répondez s'il vous
plaît", meaning "please respond". If RSVP is written on an invitation it
means the invited guest must tell the host whether or not they plan to attend the party. It does not mean to respond only if you're coming, and it does not mean respond only if you're not
coming (the expression "regrets only" is reserved for that instance).
It means the host needs a definite head count for the planned event, and
needs it by the date specified on the invitation.
Why It's Inconsiderate Not to RSVP
An incomplete list of respondents can cause numerous problems for a
host including difficulty in planning food quantities, issues relating
to minimum guarantees with catering halls, uncertainty over the number
of party favors and difficulties in planning appropriate seating, among
other things.
So the next time you see RSVP on an invitation you receive, please call your host and respond promptly.
So what are you waiting for...THANK ME NOW....LOL